The Reconciliationist

The woman you want in the room when life gets complicated.

Solid support for the far too common feeling…I’m functioning, but I'm not okay.

Maybe you're in a major life transition and hanging on by a thread, or you look at your life and nothing is “technically” wrong, but you’re full of inner turmoil.

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What is a reconciliationist?

A reconciliationist - a guide who helps people come back into right relationship — with themselves, their values, their voice, their relationships, and they life they are here to lead.

Someone who brings simplicity to the complexity of resolving internal and external conflicts.

That's where I come in.

I help you understand what's really going on — within you, between you and another person, or between the life you're living and the person you're becoming.

I bring more than three decades of experience, compassion, and a steady presence to the moments when life gets complicated.

You Might Be...

Facing tough decisions.

A relationship that's changing. A career that no longer fits. Difficult family dynamics that seem to never change. Or a life that looks good on paper but feels empty inside.

You're not alone, and you don't have to figure it out yourself.

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The Reconciliationist Method:

Return. Reclaim. Repair. Rebuild.

A way of seeing what's underneath the surface and creating a way forward that you can actually live.

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The WOrk

Less second guessing. Clearer choices. A life that feels like yours.

Let’s get clear on what matters to you—and build the courage to act on it.

Expect real conversations, compassionate straight talk, and a little laughter along the way. We’ll take what matters seriously—including you—without making growth an exhausting assignment.

Whether we work privately, a supportive collective, or step away for an immersive in-person experience, this is a place to exhale, and tell the truth. It’s time to turn honest insight into choices you can stand behind, and boundaries that help you stop losing yourself in life’s demands.

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“Life doesn’t have to get easier for you to lead it with confidence.”

— Christy Carter

Wherever you are, there is a place to begin

You don't have to figure it out alone.

You only have to know that something matters enough to look at. Chaos is not the enemy, it's the informant.

I'll help you start there.

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the larger vision

From individual work to community.

The Reconciliation Project and Unity Circles/ Circles of Strength bring this work into communities - because we are better together.

"In a world that shouts, a circle that listens becomes a sanctuary."

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