Peace Amid Chaos:

Live With More Ease, Lead With More Confidence

True peace doesn’t come from controlling life; it comes from know how to meet what ever life brings. True strength is shaped by how you experience challenge, chaos, and conflict—inside yourself, in your closest relationships, and in the wider world you move through.

-Develop the calm, clear presence people rely on in tense times—and turn it into one of the most valuable skills you bring to your personal and professional life.

-Calm your inner storm so you stop repeating the same draining conflicts at home, at work and in your community.

-Learn to repair strained relationships and build real trust where there’s been tension, distance, or unspoken hurt.

-Show up as the steady, wise presence people look to in hard moments—whether you’re a parent, partner, coach, healer, or leader.

Radical Courage for Rapidly Changing Times

This course distills 30 + years of mediation and coaching, into a practical, experiential journey where inner work, meets outer impact—so you not only feel different on the inside, you create different outcomes everywhere you show up — personally, professionally.

"Radical courage isn't the absence of fear - it's the decision to keep the heart open while everything is shifting."

Are you ready to rise above the chaos and “BE” the peace?

Conflict touches every human life, and though we live in a world that feels increasingly divided, conflict itself isn’t the enemy—it’s an invitation. Most people spend their lives trying to avoid, control, or survive it. Yet when we learn to meet conflict with curiosity and compassion instead of resistance, something within us begins to settle. Calm and clarity arise not because conflict disappears, but because we’ve changed our relationship with it.

Be the Strength in the Storm teaches a different way—one that moves beyond resolution into the deeper practice of reconciliation. You’ll expand not only how you handle difficult moments, but who you are inside them. What begins as self-awareness ripples into every relationship - conversation - connection in your life.

This is a commitment to clarity, peace, and a truer alignment with yourself, others, the world—where reconciliation becomes the doorway to real transformation.

Two Day In-Person Intensive + Four Online Sessions

Join the Journey

This is More Than a Course

This is more than learning. It's a shift within yourself as you broaden your awareness of yourself and others.

Most of us carry unresolved conflict, with ourselves, people we love, and chapters we haven't fully closed. We adapt around it, manage it, avoid it, and often don't even realize were doing it. But we rarely move fully through it.

This experience is built for that. Drawing on 30+ years working in the depth of human conflict, through divorce mediation, family systems, and organizational transformation, Christy Carter has distilled a body of wisdom that doesn't just teach you about reconciliation. It moves you through the layers of both the internal and external dynamics that impact everyone.

Experiential

This is not a lecture. You will feel, not just learn. The breakthroughs happen in the room — and in you.

Universal

What begins with you, ripples into every relationship, conversation, and corner of your life with your family, friendships, work and leadership.

Lasting

The work doesn't end when you leave. The four experiential sessions carry you deeper into your awareness and integration process.

"Resolution brings peace, but reconciliation brings unity. When we dare to repair, we discover our shared humanity."

Join Today

The Heart of the Work

Three pillars that change everything.

Every area of your life — every relationship, every tension, every longing for peace — is touched by these three movements.

Reconciliation Within You cannot make peace with others beyond what you've made with yourself. We begin here — in the honest, tender territory of your own inner conflict, your stories, and your identity. This is where the shift originates.
Moving Beyond Conflict Not around it. Not over it. Through it. You will develop a new relationship to conflict itself — understanding it as the threshold to deeper connection, clarity, and freedom. In your relationships. In your work. In your home.
The Ripple Effect What you embody, you transmit. People who do this work change the relational weather around them — not by trying, but by being different. Your peace becomes a presence that others can feel.

About Christy:

For over three decades Christy Carter has been doing some of the most demanding relational work that exists — sitting with families in crisis, guiding couples through divorce with dignity, helping individuals and organizations find their way through difficult situations, and transitions.

She hasn’t been building a platform. She’s been in the room. Doing the real work. What she brings to this experience is not theory—it is the hard-won, field and life tested wisdom of being present with people in their most fractured moments and watching what heals.

Christy’s competence, compassion, and lighthearted touch provides a safe space for people to relax and experience deep growth.

Her vision is simple and radical: to grow circles of people who feel a sense of connection, belonging, and unity as we all grow together through thick and thin times.

Certified Family Mediator & Divorce Professional · Family Systems Coach & Therapeutic Facilitator · Retreat Leader & Experiential Workshop Designer · Organizational & Team Conflict Specialist · Individual & Group Coaching — over 30 years

What You’ll Learn in Be the Strength in the Storm

This course is designed to change you from the inside out—how you relate to yourself, how you move through your closest relationships, and how you show up in any professional role where people are counting on you.

You will develop core human skills that most of us were never taught—skills that soften old pain, strengthen your presence, and quietly increase your value and impact in any setting.

By the end of this course, you will:

Shift your inner experience of conflict
Recognize your patterns or triggers sooner, and calm your body more quickly, so you’re no longer stuck in shutdown, blame, or reactivity—even in a world that feels loud, tense, and polarized.
Relate to yourself with more steadiness and compassion
Learn how to meet your own emotions without abandoning yourself, so you feel more anchored and less hijacked by other people’s behavior, headlines, or social pressures. and more anchored in who you are.
Transform personal relationships from tension to true connection
Bring new skills into conversations with partners, family, friends, and community—so repair, understanding, and genuine reconciliation become possible where there used to be distance or repeating issues.
Strengthen your leadership in any career
Develop human relation, conflict-resolution and reconciliation skills that translate directly into the workplace—whether you’re a coach, mediator, manager, HR professional, educator, healthcare provider, or community leader.
Communicate with courage and clarity under pressure
Practice speaking hard truths in a way that keeps dignity and respect in the room, even when emotions are high or opinions differ sharply.
Hold space without losing yourself
Listen deeply and stay steady for others without absorbing their conflict or burning out—modeling a different way of being in a culture that often swings between avoidance and attack.
Grow your foundation for future facilitation
Integrate practical skills you can weave into your existing work with clients, teams, or groups—and Circles of Strength-style spaces, contributing to a wider culture of reconciliation and belonging in your community.

These skills are essential, often underdeveloped, and increasingly sought after in a world that desperately needs grounded, compassionate people who know how to hold a safe space and meet conflict with wisdom

Transform Conflict into Connection

Conflict touches every human life. And while we live in a world that feels increasingly divided, conflict itself isn’t the enemy—it’s an invitation. When we learn to see it differently, to meet it with curiosity and compassion instead of resistance, something within us begins to settle. We discover how calm and clarity emerge not when conflict disappears, but when we no longer let it live in us the way it once did.

Join be the Strength in the Storm and begin the most important journey you’ll take this year—one that leads from reaction to reconciliation, and from tension to true belonging.

DATES: March 27th & 28th TIME: 9:30 - 4:30

LOCATION: Sandy, Utah

The full program investment is $800, which includes:

A two‑day in‑person intensive
Four live online integration & practice sessions with recorded replay available
Access to a circle of people committed to walking this path with you

This course is designed as a flagship experience—something you can return to in yourself again and again as you grow into the person you know you’re here to be.

If this feels like your next brave yes, reserve your place below.

Reserve Your Place

Get updates on future dates and related offerings?

PROGRAM STRUCTURE

Two‑Day Intensive + Four Integration Sessions

Be the Strength in the Storm is a deep, experiential journey—not a quick fix. Across a two‑day in‑person intensive and four online integration sessions, you’ll learn, practice, and embody a new way of relating to conflict so that peace becomes a lived experience, not just an idea.

Two‑Day In‑Person Intensive

Day One – Foundations of Inner Strength
- Reframing conflict: from threat to invitation
- Understanding your nervous system and staying grounded under stress
- Exploring your patterns: avoidance, control, over‑responsibility, or collapse
- Practices to create inner safety so you can stay present in hard conversations
Day Two – From Resolution to Reconciliation
- Skills for honest, courageous communication that preserves connection
- How to repair after rupture and rebuild trust
- Guided practice with real‑life scenarios (personal and professional)
- Integrating your new stance: who you choose to be in the storm

Four Online Integration & Application Sessions

The transformation doesn’t end when the intensive does. Our four online integration sessions help you bring these tools into your real life—where conflict, tension, and courageous conversations actually happen.

You’ll receive:

Guided reflection and integration of what’s arising in your real relationships
Spotlight coaching where Christy works directly with participants on live situations
Small breakout groups to practice skills in a supported, real‑time way
Continued somatic and awareness practices to keep your nervous system online and steady

LET’S MAKE A DIFFERENCE TOGETHER!

Peace Amid Chaos:

Live With More Ease, Lead With More Confidence

True peace doesn’t come from controlling life; it comes from know how to meet what ever life brings. True strength is shaped by how you experience challenge, chaos, and conflict—inside yourself, in your closest relationships, and in the wider world you move through.

-Develop the calm, clear presence people rely on in tense times—and turn it into one of the most valuable skills you bring to your personal and professional life.

-Calm your inner storm so you stop repeating the same draining conflicts at home, at work and in your community.

-Learn to repair strained relationships and build real trust where there’s been tension, distance, or unspoken hurt.

-Show up as the steady, wise presence people look to in hard moments—whether you’re a parent, partner, coach, healer, or leader.

Radical Courage for Rapidly Changing Times

This course distills 30 + years of mediation and coaching, into a practical, experiential journey where inner work, meets outer impact—so you not only feel different on the inside, you create different outcomes everywhere you show up — personally, professionally.

"Radical courage isn't the absence of fear - it's the decision to keep the heart open while everything is shifting."

Are you ready to rise above the chaos and “BE” the peace?

This is a commitment to clarity, peace, and a truer alignment with yourself, others, the world—where reconciliation becomes the doorway to real transformation.

Two Day In-Person Intensive + Four Online Sessions

This is More Than a Course

This is more than learning. It's a shift within yourself as you broaden your awareness of yourself and others.

Most of us carry unresolved conflict, with ourselves, people we love, and chapters we haven't fully closed. We adapt around it, manage it, avoid it, and often don't even realize were doing it. But we rarely move fully through it.

Experiential

This is not a lecture. You will feel, not just learn. The breakthroughs happen in the room — and in you.

Universal

What begins with you, ripples into every relationship, conversation, and corner of your life with your family, friendships, work and leadership.

Lasting

The work doesn't end when you leave. The four experiential sessions carry you deeper into your awareness and integration process.

"Resolution brings peace, but reconciliation brings unity. When we dare to repair, we discover our shared humanity."

The Heart of the Work

Three pillars that change everything.

Every area of your life — every relationship, every tension, every longing for peace — is touched by these three movements.

Reconciliation Within You cannot make peace with others beyond what you've made with yourself. We begin here — in the honest, tender territory of your own inner conflict, your stories, and your identity. This is where the shift originates.

Moving Beyond Conflict Not around it. Not over it. Through it. You will develop a new relationship to conflict itself — understanding it as the threshold to deeper connection, clarity, and freedom. In your relationships. In your work. In your home.

The Ripple Effect What you embody, you transmit. People who do this work change the relational weather around them — not by trying, but by being different. Your peace becomes a presence that others can feel.

About Christy:

For over three decades Christy Carter has been doing some of the most demanding relational work that exists — sitting with families in crisis, guiding couples through divorce with dignity, helping individuals and organizations find their way through difficult situations, and transitions.

She hasn’t been building a platform. She’s been in the room. Doing the real work. What she brings to this experience is not theory—it is the hard-won, field and life tested wisdom of being present with people in their most fractured moments and watching what heals.

Christy’s competence, compassion, and lighthearted touch provides a safe space for people to relax and experience deep growth.

Her vision is simple and radical: to grow circles of people who feel a sense of connection, belonging, and unity as we all grow together through thick and thin times.

Certified Family Mediator & Divorce Professional · Family Systems Coach & Therapeutic Facilitator · Retreat Leader & Experiential Workshop Designer · Organizational & Team Conflict Specialist · Individual & Group Coaching — over 30 years

What You’ll Learn in Be the Strength in the Storm

This course is designed to change you from the inside out—how you relate to yourself, how you move through your closest relationships, and how you show up in any professional role where people are counting on you.

You will develop core human skills that most of us were never taught—skills that soften old pain, strengthen your presence, and quietly increase your value and impact in any setting.

By the end of this course, you will:

Shift your inner experience of conflictRecognize your patterns or triggers sooner, and calm your body more quickly, so you’re no longer stuck in shutdown, blame, or reactivity—even in a world that feels loud, tense, and polarized.

Relate to yourself with more steadiness and compassionLearn how to meet your own emotions without abandoning yourself, so you feel more anchored and less hijacked by other people’s behavior, headlines, or social pressures. and more anchored in who you are.

Transform personal relationships from tension to true connectionBring new skills into conversations with partners, family, friends, and community—so repair, understanding, and genuine reconciliation become possible where there used to be distance or repeating issues.

Strengthen your leadership in any careerDevelop human relation, conflict-resolution and reconciliation skills that translate directly into the workplace—whether you’re a coach, mediator, manager, HR professional, educator, healthcare provider, or community leader.

Communicate with courage and clarity under pressurePractice speaking hard truths in a way that keeps dignity and respect in the room, even when emotions are high or opinions differ sharply.

Hold space without losing yourselfListen deeply and stay steady for others without absorbing their conflict or burning out—modeling a different way of being in a culture that often swings between avoidance and attack.

Grow your foundation for future facilitationIntegrate practical skills you can weave into your existing work with clients, teams, or groups—and Circles of Strength-style spaces, contributing to a wider culture of reconciliation and belonging in your community.

These skills are essential, often underdeveloped, and increasingly sought after in a world that desperately needs grounded, compassionate people who know how to hold a safe space and meet conflict with wisdom

Transform Conflict into Connection

Join be the Strength in the Storm and begin the most important journey you’ll take this year—one that leads from reaction to reconciliation, and from tension to true belonging.

DATES: March 27th & 28th TIME: 9:30 - 4:30

LOCATION: Sandy, Utah

The full program investment is $800, which includes:

A two‑day in‑person intensive

Four live online integration & practice sessions with recorded replay available

Access to a circle of people committed to walking this path with you

This course is designed as a flagship experience—something you can return to in yourself again and again as you grow into the person you know you’re here to be.

If this feels like your next brave yes, reserve your place below.

Get updates on future dates and related offerings?

PROGRAM STRUCTURE

Two‑Day Intensive + Four Integration Sessions

Be the Strength in the Storm is a deep, experiential journey—not a quick fix. Across a two‑day in‑person intensive and four online integration sessions, you’ll learn, practice, and embody a new way of relating to conflict so that peace becomes a lived experience, not just an idea.

Two‑Day In‑Person Intensive

Day One – Foundations of Inner Strength

Reframing conflict: from threat to invitation

Understanding your nervous system and staying grounded under stress

Exploring your patterns: avoidance, control, over‑responsibility, or collapse

Practices to create inner safety so you can stay present in hard conversations

Day Two – From Resolution to Reconciliation

Skills for honest, courageous communication that preserves connection

How to repair after rupture and rebuild trust

Guided practice with real‑life scenarios (personal and professional)

Integrating your new stance: who you choose to be in the storm

Four Online Integration & Application Sessions

The transformation doesn’t end when the intensive does. Our four online integration sessions help you bring these tools into your real life—where conflict, tension, and courageous conversations actually happen.

You’ll receive:

Guided reflection and integration of what’s arising in your real relationships

Spotlight coaching where Christy works directly with participants on live situations

Small breakout groups to practice skills in a supported, real‑time way

Continued somatic and awareness practices to keep your nervous system online and steady

LET’S MAKE A DIFFERENCE TOGETHER!

Shift your inner experience of conflict
Recognize your patterns or triggers sooner, and calm your body more quickly, so you’re no longer stuck in shutdown, blame, or reactivity—even in a world that feels loud, tense, and polarized.

Relate to yourself with more steadiness and compassion
Learn how to meet your own emotions without abandoning yourself, so you feel more anchored and less hijacked by other people’s behavior, headlines, or social pressures. and more anchored in who you are.

Transform personal relationships from tension to true connection
Bring new skills into conversations with partners, family, friends, and community—so repair, understanding, and genuine reconciliation become possible where there used to be distance or repeating issues.

Strengthen your leadership in any career
Develop human relation, conflict-resolution and reconciliation skills that translate directly into the workplace—whether you’re a coach, mediator, manager, HR professional, educator, healthcare provider, or community leader.

Communicate with courage and clarity under pressure
Practice speaking hard truths in a way that keeps dignity and respect in the room, even when emotions are high or opinions differ sharply.

Hold space without losing yourself
Listen deeply and stay steady for others without absorbing their conflict or burning out—modeling a different way of being in a culture that often swings between avoidance and attack.

Grow your foundation for future facilitation
Integrate practical skills you can weave into your existing work with clients, teams, or groups—and Circles of Strength-style spaces, contributing to a wider culture of reconciliation and belonging in your community.